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Three Ways Single People Should Celebrate Easter

Welp, Easter is Sunday. If you don’t have any kids or nieces & nephews, you may be wondering what you could do to celebrate the joyous occasion. It’s really not that hard, as it is Spring. Mimosas, Minosas, Mimosas…Say no mo’! Check out these tips! Host brunch or BBQ with your friends: There’s nothing like brunch’n! Mimosas, food, music, nice fashions, and a good time. You may be childless but you can still celebrate the resurrection of Jesus, OH—KAY! If he was turning water into wine, surely he ain’t gon’…

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Access Denied: You Can’t Sit Here!

A couple of times a week, I meet up with my homegirls and we put in work, while having good conversations. Today, we spoke about how people want access to you, and when they can’t have it, they end up disliking you and it made me think. People conveniently miss the struggle part, before they see you. As soon as it is perceived, you have some clout or level of popularity, everybody wants access to you. From inviting themselves to your invite-only events to randomly asking you for money, people…

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Four Reasons You Need a Favorite Nicca, Sis…

After a failed relationship, you don’t need anything serious. All you need a is a favorite nicca. A man who is more than a friend with benefits but not anyone you’re committed to. In my mind, he’s someone you could get serious with, if you wanted to, but understand that now just isn’t the time. If nothing else, he’s someone who actually helps you heal through your pain, until you’re ready to commit again. In your 20’s you have a heaux phase, but in your 30’s, you ain’t got time…

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Why Am I So Transparent About My Break-Up?

I’ve had a few people to ask why am I being so transparent, as it relates to my healing process.I am going through a public breakup and it’s not like people didn’t know we were together. So, why in the world would I invite people into my most vulnerable and transparent world? If you know me, you know I always share honest life moments—I always have. I built my brand around authenticity. I created #girlkeepgoing because one night, after breaking down, I had to tell myself something to create a…

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Do Better: Suh! Stop Shaming Women for Who They Love

It always amazes me how judgmental other women can be, as it relates to the choices of their fellow sista.  From the clothes one chooses to wear to the one we choose to love, many women act as the judge, jury, and executioner, in most cases, if they don’t understand or accept that. I understand people have opinions. But, it’s the condescending ‘pick me’ type of rhetoric that I just don’t quite understand.  Lately, I have seen many posts condemning women who stay in not so healthy relationships. I am…

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